I never really write on here but this is for me and all of you
I feel as though I know so many women who are disappointed and sad over men right now. On tumblr or in person. Over silly things men have done, over men who left them or men couldn’t commit (should I even be saying men right now? Probably not.) Myself included. I was sad for awhile, anyways. I see all the girl-is-brokenhearted-over-boy pictures/quotes that are most frequently passed around on the people I follow on tumblr and it’s sad how many I see over and over again. It’s okay to be brokenhearted but we need to realize that if they left, it was for a reason. If it didn’t work out, that was also for a reason. If you left them and are hurting or regretting it, that was your intuition telling you something wasn’t right. It’s okay to hurt over someone you cared for but we care for people all the time who aren’t good for us. The point is to learn, realize why you liked them and whether or not that’s the type of person you want. Or can you move on to something healthier? We owe that to ourselves.
As overused as this point may be, we cannot fully love someone without loving ourselves first. If you’re single, take the time to make peace with yourself and do things for yourself you might not have time to do if you were attached. We contribute to relationships better if we are also healthy individuals. I believe this. I’m working on this myself but I think it’s a worthy point to pass around.
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